it's up to you

You’re the one who is stopping you.

What if the things you think you can’t achieve are the believe patterns installed in you when growing up? We often label ourselves, put our character in a certain box without even considering if what we constantly repeat comes from us or not. It’s the believe that we’re not fit, dyslectic, incapable of achieving our dreams, etc, etc. that causes confusion in our heads. The soul knows there is nothing it can’t achieve, there is nothing it’s not for it if it’s already planted.

Then how to hack our own mind is the real question. With patience, with understanding, by practicing compassion and proven techniques that many professionals have already shared with us.

The monkey mind will continue keeping you save in the well known limiting believes. That’s okay. But it’s up to you to make the difference.

It's not you, it's them

…or your limiting believe. when it comes down to valuing your work, they (people outside your head) are only responding, reflecting to what you have inside. They are projecting your inner believes to you. Believes that are changeable, that you’ve learned at some point in your life. The value of a work is not simply defined by a price tag, but moreover by value, story and what problem or feeling will bring to the buyer.

I’ve had clients who happily paid whatever I said it costs, and others who fund it expensive. On what base is expensive, I wonder? On the fact that I don’t believe it, or their economical situation? Or is it the way they (we as humans in general) put value on each object, service, experience?

What they find expensive is none of your business unless it’s your inner believe that you don’t cost this much. The value of your work is not related to what others think of it, but rather how you feel about it. Is this the best product/service you can offer your clients? Is your business fully representing you? If not, can you change it to make it so?

Isnt’t an objectification, it’s a reclamation

I understand it might not be what comes into your mind first, but trust me when I say there is a huge difference.

The aim of sensual photography is not to show your unclothed body or present you as a sexual object. Your sexual power is without doubt a mighty force that allows you to create in a unique way. As a woman, you’ve been given the rare, most precious, one of a kind gift and ability to bring and carry life. Your body is a sacred temple, your sexuality is a magical force that deserves to be celebrated.

Sensual photography is exactly this - a respectful, empowering experience that connects you with the side of yourself you often neglect in order to fit into the standards of this man made world. It’s time to remember who you are and what you’re capable of. It’s time to feel comfortable siting on your piedestal, you’ve deserved by birthright. It’s time to let yourself create without guild, shame or boundaries.

We need you just as you are.

You know your best way of functioning

Have you been told how you should work, organise your life or create? Have you ever been insured that their way of thinking, doing and functioning is the right way but you felt that things inside telling you the opposite?

People, often those closest to us, love telling us how we should behave and live our life. Like there is only one way to do so. Like Mother Nature create everything the same, functioning the same. If she did, I doubt we would’ve been here now…

It’s challenging to claim your rebellious nature in family/surrounding where this action was never really an option for anybody else before. It’s challenging to raise your voice and say your truth when all of the rest were trained to keep it low key and behave as expected. However, it’s totally worth it.

Society has build a working schedule based on one variation of the equation. 9-5 might not be the best, most productive way for you to make the most of your life and career. Having more quality withdraws from the society might be the most productive action you can do personally and professionally. Hustling is not everybody’s best road to success. The challenge here is comes as a self reflection - how to find out what’s best working for you and have a strength to claim it despite all the noice around?

I’m still on the road to self discovery but the more I walk on it, the more I see that we’re different for a reason, there’s no shame or failure in working your own way, our astrology chart and human design are extremely important guides on our journey.

We all know inside what is the best for us, we just have to listen.

If you can dream it, you can do it

Or at least this is how I push myself through hurdles when walking on the path toward a dream goal.

There are moments when things seems out of reach, but remember how many of those you made real at the end. It might take some time and battle fields, but what you have in your mind is there for a reason. The One who created us put those thoughts in our head, because they are for us to have, to do, to become. It’s out personal role that contributes to the whole. Each of us is as important as the others and together we make this whole thing function, go forward, develop.

What we want, want us back, we just have to walk the walk to get it. If you’re going through a hard period - keep going. If things are going well for you - appreciate it, but keep in mind winter will also come. Nothing is permanent, everything changes therefore we have to be grateful for every moment, bright or dark, as this is the balance of Life.